From the Desk of the Founder
My Story
For nearly thirty years, I’ve been pursuing one mission with my whole heart: helping individuals build healthy self-esteem. With over twenty years in education—and the unique opportunity to teach at every level—I’ve seen a lot, experienced even more, and walked beside countless students on their journeys of growth, struggle, and discovery.
Before my time in the classroom, I proudly served in the United States Navy. It was during those years that I learned the meaning of discipline, grit, and courage—qualities that have shaped not just my leadership, but my heart for serving others. That experience gave me the strength to push through challenges, to lead with empathy, and to commit fully to the work of transformation.
And what I’ve learned through every season is this: self-esteem doesn’t just exist. It’s built.
It doesn’t magically appear from within—it is shaped, formed, and nurtured through intentional care, guidance, and truth.
We often say, “They don’t have self-esteem” or “They need more confidence”—but where does that come from?
- It’s built through self-awareness—but what if a child doesn’t yet know who they are?
- It’s shaped by positive self-talk—but where are they taught how to speak kindly to themselves?
- It’s strengthened by a support system—but what if that system doesn’t exist?
These questions fueled something in me. After retirement from the classroom, I knew I wasn’t done teaching—I just needed to shift the setting. Loving Your You is the answer to a lifelong calling: to create safe, restorative spaces where individuals—regardless of age, background, or experience—can begin the powerful work of building self-esteem.
Through practical tools, mentoring, coaching, and digital content like Mirror Talk and The Loving Your YOU-niversity, we’re offering what so many need but rarely receive—permission and guidance to love who they are.
This isn’t just a youth thing.
It’s not a girl thing or a boy thing.
It’s not a race thing.
It’s a human thing.
I loved every minute of being a teacher. But this season—this calling—is about helping people not only know they’re enough, but to believe it, speak it, and live it out.
With deep purpose, unwavering belief, and the heart of a servant leader.
Lisa Shaw
Founder, Loving Your You
Mission Statement:
At Loving Your You, our mission is to empower individuals to transform their inner dialogue through positive self talk strategies and self-love. We provide resources, inspiration, and a supportive community that guides every person on the journey of embracing their authentic self, overcoming negative beliefs, and celebrating the beauty of who they truly are.
Vision Statement:
At Loving Your You, we envision a world where every inner conversation is a source of strength and inspiration. We aspire to create a movement that transforms positive self-talk into a powerful practice of self-love, encouraging every individual to embrace their true worth, overcome self-doubt, and shine with confidence in every aspect of their life.
Our Guiding Principles
Identity Is The Foundation
We believe identity is not given—it’s discovered. Every person deserves to know who they are beyond titles, trauma, and trends.
Self-Love Is Not Selfish
Loving yourself is essential, not optional. It fuels how you show up in every area of your life.
Every Voice Matters
Whether whispered, cracked, or confident—your voice has value. We help individuals reclaim it.
Words Carry Power
Death and life are in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21). We speak life—first to ourselves, then to others.
Healing Is a Journey
We create safe spaces for reflection, affirmation, and growth—because wholeness takes time and support
Transformation Begins Within
Real change starts with self-awareness, self-worth, and self-respect. We teach from the inside out.
We’re Preparing the Ground for Purpose-Driven People
Join the Loving Your YOU-niversity Team!
Loving Your YOU-niversity is growing, and we’re looking for passionate, committed individuals to help us inspire and empower students and young adults across the nation. If you believe in building self-esteem, promoting positive self-talk, and creating safe spaces for personal growth, we’d love to have you on our team. Explore the roles below and apply today.
Program Mentor
Mentors serve as trusted guides, motivators, and role models for youth enrolled in the Loving Your YOU-niversity Journey. Mentors lead weekly 60-minute virtual sessions focused on building self-worth, self-awareness, and positive self-talk through structured lessons, activities, and authentic connection.
Session Support Coordinator
The SSC serves as a silent observer and support presence during each virtual mentoring session. They ensure a safe, smooth, and appropriate learning environment by monitoring session flow, handling technical issues if needed, and reporting any concerns.
Why Partner With Us?
- Donors enable us to deliver free and low-cost programming—like our “Positive Self-Talk” workshops and The Loving Your YOU-niversity sessions—that break cycles of self-doubt and foster healing.
- Corporate Partners amplify our impact through strategic collaborations, employee engagement, and community-driven change.
Your Support Makes Possible:
Safe, restorative spaces for personal growth
Evidence-based emotional wellness programs
Scalable resources that affirm self-worth
Loving Your You is registered as a non-profit organization with full 501(c)(3) status. All contributions are tax-deductible.
Join us in turning struggle into strength. Together, we don’t just speak life—we build futures where every person knows they are enough.
Invest today. Transform tomorrow.
To Parents & Guardians:
Empowering our children with the practice of positive self-talk is one of the most profound gifts you can offer—one that resonates across every stage of life. This practice isn’t just a fleeting moment of encouragement; it’s a lifelong tool that builds resilience, self-belief, and emotional strength.